Have you ever sat and thought about how meaningful it is to be married? It really is an amazing thing. No one else is suited to be your spouses best friend , lover and helper the way you are. Each of us has in us- right now- the things we need most, to love and help the special people we call family.What more important place could you fill? I am thinking of the impact we have on the people we share our homes with.Every single day you can make the difference in their lives. Every single day you can be the person they can't wait to get home to, to wake up to see, to talk to, to laugh with, to cry with when they need to, to just be comfortable with. You are sunshine to someones life!!!
Be sure your spouse knows that you love them. That may sound silly to some of you. But truly- be sure they know. People feel love many different ways. So we need to show love many different ways. If you say ,"I love you", but never show love in your actions, it just seems false. We all need to experience the many different kinds of love to know down deep it is real. So the words , a hug and other outward signs of love mean a lot to your spouse. Showing love in tangible ways often inspires our lovers to begin to show love back in tangible ways,and the circle of love continues. It must start somewhere. Let it be in our hearts toward those we love. God bless you as you ponder your vast role in this world. Hugs, Barbara