Boys!

June 14th, 2009
I finished my errands and am back! I thought I would pop in on the boys topic. I have 7 of the critters, so know a little. I have found several things with boys.
First, keep in mind that boys are turning into men from day 1! They are wired to be leaders and to take over the world!
Second, taking over the world has to wait, so you need to keep them busy! A boy MUST have a physical release of energy or he will have an emotional one. SO they need work and exercise. When one of mine gets grumpy I put them on the treadmill! Or out they go to mow, or wash a car. If you DAILY use that wonderful God given energy and strength, they will grumble less.
Third, boys need attention. I would say even teens, but actually it is especially teens. They need to know you are noticing how big, and strong, an man-like they are! As soon as you can start giving them the tasks hubby would do if he were home. A teen can fix a clogged drain, hang pictures, change oil, etc. Don’t make it a list of chores, instead make it a man- role. Hey, since dad isn’t home could you….for me?
Lastly, do thigs they like. Building strong bonds of friendsip will actually increase your authority. It shows you like them and are not afraid of being challanged. Go to movies you don’t like, try video games you would never play, listen to music they choose. Talk, talk, talk. Who wants to fight with a friend???
Hugs, Barbara